sofia violet

May 16 Reblogged






Dom & Sub is a body of illustrative work in digital media that attempts to humanize practitioners of BDSM and offer a representation of kinky sex that not only refutes negative stereotypes but informs the audience that sadomasochistic play is done best between happy, healthy, and consenting adults. I portrayed the couple in the work not only engaging in S&M play but also building a “scene” together and nurturing one another after the play has concluded; these are moments often left unconsidered or completely ignored in visual representations of S&M. I believe it’s important to see how kinky scenes are crafted with care, commitment to safety and enthusiastic consent in order to limit those times when sadomasochistic play is used to abuse or dehumanize other human beings. It is my hope that my audience will learn from the illustrations that sadomasochistic play is not always dark or scary, and that fellow ‘kinksters’ can enjoy tender representations of S&M that do not ridicule or pathologize them. I’ve designed the work to engage sadomasochistic imagery, material and theory with an ethical conscience.


cute cute cute! <3

Yes good.

I like it.

And I know the artist knows what they’re talking about, because of that glass of water.  I don’t think I’ve ever seen it depicted in BDSM art before!  But the post-scene glass of water is A Thing.  You get thirsty!

The only thing that could make me happier is if this series goes on to depict a bowl of M&Ms.

Mar 07 Reblogged

Hello, Tailor: astolat: devildoll: princess-fluffybutt: sassyhiddles:...








do actors get boners while making sex scenes this is one of the things i’ve wondered my whole life

Idk if you actually care for the answer, but they have to put their dicks in little sleeves that attach to the leg so if they get a boner it just get held down.

that sounds like a garment that should be sold everywhere and considered polite if not mandatory to wear, like bras

Omg I can’t

As a guy I second this.

I would kind of like it if the penis sleeve became a big, billion dollar industry and there were penis sleeves in all kinds of materials and colors, like pretty red satin ones for Valentine’s Day, and of course if you’re going out on a big date you wear the nice matching set of penis sleeve and tie.  And some of them would be designed to enhance or downplay certain features, like the Wonder Sleeve that makes things look just a little…bigger. And I’d also like it if there were stores at the mall, and catalogs (Victor’s Secret!) weighing down the mail carrier, and an annual runway show that was all male models strutting down the catwalk in their peacock feather adorned penis sleeves, and every year at Christmas there was a limited edition Fantasy Penis Sleeve covered in opals or something that cost 2.5 million dollars.

I’d like that a lot, actually.

And I suddenly feel the urge to write fanfic set in the glorious Wonder Sleeve universe.

(Source: crocomire)

Feb 09 Reblogged

cosmo tip #585


whenever he gives you an order during dom/sub play, answer him with “whatever mom“ 

Dec 28 Reblogged



I’m such a nice girl, I’m so sick of being fuckzoned!!!!!!!

What’s the fuckzone you ask? it’s this zone that guys put you in where they only want to fuck you; they don’t want to have a friendship with you and they aren’t satisfied with emotional commitment, they just want sex!!!!!

I’m a nice girl!!!! Stop putting me in the fuckzone!!!!!!!


Dec 24 Reblogged


exterminate misogyny…because hate is a pest that must be eliminated.

(Source: foxgloveandmelancholy)

Feb 14 Reblogged

I love how the symbols for &#8220;men in pope hats&#8221; look so much like butt plugs.

I love how the symbols for “men in pope hats” look so much like butt plugs.

Feb 13 Reblogged

Although most boys figure out how to bring themselves to orgasm by age thirteen, half of girls don’t have their first orgasms until their late teens, twenties, or beyond. Teenage girls widely agree that they get the message loud and clear that masturbation is something boys do, but girls don’t, can’t, or shouldn’t. The cultural focus on intercourse tells young women to expect they’ll begin to experience sexual pleasure once they have sex with a man (whether or not they’re even interested in sex with men). Nearly all teen boys, on the other hand, experience sexual pleasure long before they get their hands—or other body parts—into a partner’s pants. Despite the massive advances in women’s equality, young women’s sexuality is stuck in a surprising paradox. Young women are sold provocative clothes but aren’t taught where to find their own clitoris. Many girls give their boyfriends oral sex, but are too uncomfortable with their own bodies to allow the guys to return the favor. It’s still a radical act to say that women need and deserve access to information about their own sexual pleasure—not just about the risks and negative consequences of sex.